Comments on: What Ran Said http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/ se wo were fi na wosan kofa a yenki Mon, 06 Jul 2009 01:27:10 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: The Subversive Spirit of Christmas (The Anthropik Network) http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-35519 The Subversive Spirit of Christmas (The Anthropik Network) Thu, 14 Dec 2006 22:16:31 +0000 http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-35519 [...] This is perhaps the most fundamental distinction between civilization and tribalism as systems, something Ran Prieur noted: In a tribe, purely utilitarian relationships are forbidden! The economic is a subset of the social, and in a land-based tribe, the fundamental social relationship is between the people and the land. But in civilization, the social and the economic are carefully separated. It's uncool to accept money from your family—you're supposed to "earn" it through a utilitarian deal with strangers. We don't want to chat with the person behind the counter—we just want our coffee. We love people we don't depend on, and we depend on people we don't love, or even know. [...] […] This is perhaps the most fundamental distinction between civilization and tribalism as systems, something Ran Prieur noted: In a tribe, purely utilitarian relationships are forbidden! The economic is a subset of the social, and in a land-based tribe, the fundamental social relationship is between the people and the land. But in civilization, the social and the economic are carefully separated. It’s uncool to accept money from your family—you’re supposed to “earn” it through a utilitarian deal with strangers. We don’t want to chat with the person behind the counter—we just want our coffee. We love people we don’t depend on, and we depend on people we don’t love, or even know. […]

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By: Jason Godesky http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-30432 Jason Godesky Mon, 20 Nov 2006 16:22:06 +0000 http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-30432 Absolutely, and as I noted in "<a href="http://anthropik.com/2006/05/the-tribe-of-anthropik/" rel="nofollow">The Tribe of Anthropik</a>": <blockquote>As <a href="http://anthropik.com/2006/04/state-of-the-tribe/#comment-9221" rel="nofollow">Cory pointed out</a>: <p><em>Secondly, your tribe is strong in that the three remaining members are solid in their agreement, which is awesome, but I have to point out that you are all family. Like real family. Mike and Jason are brothers, and so of course are going to think alike, and Guili and Jason are getting married, so its a foregone conclusion that you're solid (congrats again, btw). You don't have any members anymore that aren't related. It doesn't really matter, it just makes it look like that what you have is a family, not a tribe. Just thought I'd point it out from a readers point of view. Do you need anyone else in the tribe to call it a tribe? No, you don't, but I think there's more to your solidarity than purely a common philosphical thread, whether you see it or not.</em></p> <p>We <em>do</em> see it, but anthropologically, a tribe is a family; the core of the Tribe of Anthropik that remains is the strongest part. We were the members who spent the most time together, and as Cory points out, there is more binding us together than mere philosophy.</p></blockquote> And I think that suggests <em>precisely</em> where tribe-building has to start: with your own family. Because like you said, if we wait to learn how to form tribes until a collapse, we're in trouble. (Surprisingly enough, should Steve ever rejoin us, we'd still be a family—we discovered that Steve's actually a distant cousin of mine and Mike's!) Absolutely, and as I noted in “The Tribe of Anthropik“:

As Cory pointed out:

Secondly, your tribe is strong in that the three remaining members are solid in their agreement, which is awesome, but I have to point out that you are all family. Like real family. Mike and Jason are brothers, and so of course are going to think alike, and Guili and Jason are getting married, so its a foregone conclusion that you’re solid (congrats again, btw). You don’t have any members anymore that aren’t related. It doesn’t really matter, it just makes it look like that what you have is a family, not a tribe. Just thought I’d point it out from a readers point of view. Do you need anyone else in the tribe to call it a tribe? No, you don’t, but I think there’s more to your solidarity than purely a common philosphical thread, whether you see it or not.

We do see it, but anthropologically, a tribe is a family; the core of the Tribe of Anthropik that remains is the strongest part. We were the members who spent the most time together, and as Cory points out, there is more binding us together than mere philosophy.

And I think that suggests precisely where tribe-building has to start: with your own family. Because like you said, if we wait to learn how to form tribes until a collapse, we’re in trouble.

(Surprisingly enough, should Steve ever rejoin us, we’d still be a family—we discovered that Steve’s actually a distant cousin of mine and Mike’s!)

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By: Toby Hemenway http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-30389 Toby Hemenway Mon, 20 Nov 2006 06:04:21 +0000 http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-30389 Ran and Thomas fit a lot of keen observations into a fairly few words. I’ve been thinking lately about how difficult it is to establish or, more to the point, maintain tribes inside our culture, and have noticed two things that seem to boil down to the same point. First, most, if not all, traditional tribes are composed of families or groups of families. There are a lot of blood ties. This makes it awfully difficult to leave a tribe: you’re walking away from siblings, parents. (BTW, up to half of all Iraqis are married to a first or second cousin, which, as <a href="http://www.isteve.com/cousin_marriage_conundrum.htm" rel="nofollow">this article</a> points out, is one reason Iraq will never be a successful nation-state: there’s little allegiance to a unit larger than the family except for ethnic group. Imagine how tight-knit your clan would be if your son-in-law were also your nephew.) And second, in traditional tribes, leaving the tribe means exposure to terrible hardship and alienation. There’s little or no support for someone outside of the tribe; you don’t just go join another. But in this culture, there’s almost no penalty for leaving whatever you happen to be a member of. I live 2000 miles from my siblings; when Seattle got too big for me, I moved. When my employer sold out, I quit and got another job. No big deal. I’ve taught live-in courses at a half-dozen intentional communities, and am familiar with many more, so I know their dynamics well. Few of them are still around, and the rest have high turnovers. That’s because, if things get tough, people just leave. It’s much easier than staying to solve the problems and there’s little penalty for quitting. Sadly, the only thing that really keeps intentional communities together when things get tough is if the members have a monetary stake that is difficult to withdraw. (Or, as the financial sponsor of the Big Island’s Pangaia community said to me, you’ve got to have some skin in the game or there’s no reason to work at it.) If you leave one of this culture’s tribes or communities, there are thousands of options, unlike traditional tribes where outcasts often die. Maybe in a couple of decades the situation will be more like old-style tribes, but for now, as Anthropik folks well know, the threshold for quitting a tribe is often nothing more than an argument or bad feelings, or just boredom. Having the idea that tribes are cool, or that maybe someday you’ll need to know this stuff, is poor incentive for maintaining the discipline required to stay in a voluntary tribe. So: How can contemporary tribes develop structural ties that are more solid and enticing than all the options outside the tribe? If we wait to learn how to form tribes until a collapse, we’re in trouble. Ran and Thomas fit a lot of keen observations into a fairly few words. I’ve been thinking lately about how difficult it is to establish or, more to the point, maintain tribes inside our culture, and have noticed two things that seem to boil down to the same point. First, most, if not all, traditional tribes are composed of families or groups of families. There are a lot of blood ties. This makes it awfully difficult to leave a tribe: you’re walking away from siblings, parents. (BTW, up to half of all Iraqis are married to a first or second cousin, which, as this article points out, is one reason Iraq will never be a successful nation-state: there’s little allegiance to a unit larger than the family except for ethnic group. Imagine how tight-knit your clan would be if your son-in-law were also your nephew.)

And second, in traditional tribes, leaving the tribe means exposure to terrible hardship and alienation. There’s little or no support for someone outside of the tribe; you don’t just go join another. But in this culture, there’s almost no penalty for leaving whatever you happen to be a member of. I live 2000 miles from my siblings; when Seattle got too big for me, I moved. When my employer sold out, I quit and got another job. No big deal.

I’ve taught live-in courses at a half-dozen intentional communities, and am familiar with many more, so I know their dynamics well. Few of them are still around, and the rest have high turnovers. That’s because, if things get tough, people just leave. It’s much easier than staying to solve the problems and there’s little penalty for quitting. Sadly, the only thing that really keeps intentional communities together when things get tough is if the members have a monetary stake that is difficult to withdraw. (Or, as the financial sponsor of the Big Island’s Pangaia community said to me, you’ve got to have some skin in the game or there’s no reason to work at it.) If you leave one of this culture’s tribes or communities, there are thousands of options, unlike traditional tribes where outcasts often die. Maybe in a couple of decades the situation will be more like old-style tribes, but for now, as Anthropik folks well know, the threshold for quitting a tribe is often nothing more than an argument or bad feelings, or just boredom. Having the idea that tribes are cool, or that maybe someday you’ll need to know this stuff, is poor incentive for maintaining the discipline required to stay in a voluntary tribe. So: How can contemporary tribes develop structural ties that are more solid and enticing than all the options outside the tribe? If we wait to learn how to form tribes until a collapse, we’re in trouble.

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By: The College of Mythic Cartography » Blog Archive » The Lost and The Found: Putting Tribe and Family Back Together http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-30132 The College of Mythic Cartography » Blog Archive » The Lost and The Found: Putting Tribe and Family Back Together Sat, 18 Nov 2006 02:35:05 +0000 http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-30132 [...] How do you begin to learn how to place the economic/utilitarian dimension below the social one, except by doing it? But how do you cross that awkward social boundary of feelings of awkwardness and insincerity? [...] […] How do you begin to learn how to place the economic/utilitarian dimension below the social one, except by doing it? But how do you cross that awkward social boundary of feelings of awkwardness and insincerity? […]

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By: -Sean. http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-30051 -Sean. Fri, 17 Nov 2006 14:19:06 +0000 http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-30051 <i>"Even the most ambitious permaculture plans can't support much more than a small town."</i> I think this statement could be better phrased. Permaculture is a design philosophy. The designs can be made to aid planning, but the philosophy is for bottom up plans. As a result, top down hierarchies would be nonsensical in a Permaculture design. It's just a tool and not the only tool. I'm hoping to have more tools to gracefully transition eight million new yorkers to the future. There are no guarantees that a have the tools needed for it to be graceful. Nevertheless, I appreciate the utility that Permaculture offers ... for some things. “Even the most ambitious permaculture plans can’t support much more than a small town.”

I think this statement could be better phrased. Permaculture is a design philosophy. The designs can be made to aid planning, but the philosophy is for bottom up plans. As a result, top down hierarchies would be nonsensical in a Permaculture design.

It’s just a tool and not the only tool. I’m hoping to have more tools to gracefully transition eight million new yorkers to the future. There are no guarantees that a have the tools needed for it to be graceful. Nevertheless, I appreciate the utility that Permaculture offers … for some things.

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By: Jason Godesky http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-29993 Jason Godesky Thu, 16 Nov 2006 21:24:20 +0000 http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-29993 I think Ran goes wrong in the last two paragraphs with the suggestion that this is a matter as simple as making friends with the cashiers and waitresses in your life. I do that, too, and besides the social interactions and passing friendships, it also gets me t3h m4d h00kupz, j0! But does it undermine civilization? I'm not so sure. But, the placing of the economic sphere as a subset of the social sphere, that is something very significant—and as this discussion illustrates, much more problematic than just being nice to your cashiers and waitresses. <blockquote>Like Giuli says...</blockquote> Giuli hasn't been in this thread. She posts under her own name; _Gi is somebody else. <blockquote>I think many people who currently live in cities are operating in their own 'rhizome' networks already</blockquote> Of course! How could it be otherwise? See "<a href="http://anthropik.com/2005/09/the-face-of-anarchy/" rel="nofollow">The Face of Anarchy</a>." Being so essential to human life, no society can do without tribalism completely. Tribalism doesn't need hierarchy, but hierarchy always needs a bit of tribalism. <blockquote>I think it would be a great loss to think that we have to abandon our cities and the networks created there. Rather, we need a rewilding of the city environment in my opinion. This is actually happening in Detroit. Entire neighborhoods have succumbed to crime and decay and been razed to empty pasture.</blockquote> <a href="http://www.detroityes.com/toc.htm" rel="nofollow">Yes</a>, but the cities are going to be killing fields. They can't support that many people. They'll be rewilded, too, but not without a lot of time and a lot of pain. If your community is still without roots, I'd very strongly advise you to take the communities you form in the cities, and start putting down roots in a somewhat more remote location. The Tribe of Anthropik lives in Pittsburgh, but <a href="http://anthropik.com/2006/11/the-battle-for-our-home/" rel="nofollow">our home</a> is a good clip north. <blockquote>I'm not from the East coast so I don't know what it's like to not be able to find a peice of wild somewhere close. But if we can manage to support wild space, permaculture, and concentrated living arangements, why not?</blockquote> It's the premise I think that's flawed. Even the most ambitious permaculture plans can't support much more than a small town. <blockquote>People and machines are different... to the extent (in my opinion) that artificially intelligent things won't be machines. And treating people (or artificially intelligent things) like machines is wrong.</blockquote> AI is smoke and mirrors. It's as much "intelligence" as a puppet is a "person." I think Ran goes wrong in the last two paragraphs with the suggestion that this is a matter as simple as making friends with the cashiers and waitresses in your life. I do that, too, and besides the social interactions and passing friendships, it also gets me t3h m4d h00kupz, j0! But does it undermine civilization? I’m not so sure.

But, the placing of the economic sphere as a subset of the social sphere, that is something very significant—and as this discussion illustrates, much more problematic than just being nice to your cashiers and waitresses.

Like Giuli says…

Giuli hasn’t been in this thread. She posts under her own name; _Gi is somebody else.

I think many people who currently live in cities are operating in their own ‘rhizome’ networks already

Of course! How could it be otherwise? See “The Face of Anarchy.” Being so essential to human life, no society can do without tribalism completely. Tribalism doesn’t need hierarchy, but hierarchy always needs a bit of tribalism.

I think it would be a great loss to think that we have to abandon our cities and the networks created there. Rather, we need a rewilding of the city environment in my opinion. This is actually happening in Detroit. Entire neighborhoods have succumbed to crime and decay and been razed to empty pasture.

Yes, but the cities are going to be killing fields. They can’t support that many people. They’ll be rewilded, too, but not without a lot of time and a lot of pain. If your community is still without roots, I’d very strongly advise you to take the communities you form in the cities, and start putting down roots in a somewhat more remote location. The Tribe of Anthropik lives in Pittsburgh, but our home is a good clip north.

I’m not from the East coast so I don’t know what it’s like to not be able to find a peice of wild somewhere close. But if we can manage to support wild space, permaculture, and concentrated living arangements, why not?

It’s the premise I think that’s flawed. Even the most ambitious permaculture plans can’t support much more than a small town.

People and machines are different… to the extent (in my opinion) that artificially intelligent things won’t be machines. And treating people (or artificially intelligent things) like machines is wrong.

AI is smoke and mirrors. It’s as much “intelligence” as a puppet is a “person.”

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By: Alpha Dogs, Wolf Packs & the Wandering Free Families (The Anthropik Network) http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-29831 Alpha Dogs, Wolf Packs & the Wandering Free Families (The Anthropik Network) Wed, 15 Nov 2006 19:33:59 +0000 http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-29831 [...] "Thomas," who learned of tribal cultures from his grandparents who once lived in one, wrote to Ran Prieur about his experience. Part of the email that Ran edited out underlines the importance of family in tribal life. The difference between tribal and civilized is human ownership. In true tribal life, human beings are owned by their nuclear family and by extension a land base. To have one's own family is everyone's ambition and it (marriage and hopefully kids) is what makes everyone an equal and participating tribe member. A tribe is really just a group of people who are owned and provided for by an identified (or similar) land base. [...] […] “Thomas,” who learned of tribal cultures from his grandparents who once lived in one, wrote to Ran Prieur about his experience. Part of the email that Ran edited out underlines the importance of family in tribal life. The difference between tribal and civilized is human ownership. In true tribal life, human beings are owned by their nuclear family and by extension a land base. To have one’s own family is everyone’s ambition and it (marriage and hopefully kids) is what makes everyone an equal and participating tribe member. A tribe is really just a group of people who are owned and provided for by an identified (or similar) land base. […]

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By: Ted Heistman http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-29801 Ted Heistman Wed, 15 Nov 2006 15:28:49 +0000 http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-29801 Like a toaster? Like a toaster?

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By: speedbird http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-29777 speedbird Wed, 15 Nov 2006 13:13:52 +0000 http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-29777 Ooh, lots of interesting thoughts. (1) People and machines are different... to the extent (in my opinion) that artificially intelligent things won't be machines. And treating people (or artificially intelligent things) like machines is wrong. (2) I tried being a robot at work for a while. Now my aim in work is to be as little of a robot as possible. There is always a tension. There are ways of managing it. They are sometimes difficult. (3) Thinking about our machines as other than ourselves is also wrong. Ooh, lots of interesting thoughts.

(1) People and machines are different… to the extent (in my opinion) that artificially intelligent things won’t be machines. And treating people (or artificially intelligent things) like machines is wrong.

(2) I tried being a robot at work for a while. Now my aim in work is to be as little of a robot as possible. There is always a tension. There are ways of managing it. They are sometimes difficult.

(3) Thinking about our machines as other than ourselves is also wrong.

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By: casemeau http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-29746 casemeau Wed, 15 Nov 2006 04:26:08 +0000 http://anthropik.com/2006/11/what-ran-said/#comment-29746 Ian said: <i>What I'm saying was, perhaps your marriage WAS purely utilitarian, your social looking glass may have just warped your perception into thinking it was an authentic relationship.i It's a good point, Ian. Perhaps we too quickly call one transaction "utilitarian" and another "social" as if there were a clear dividing line between the two categories. Indeed, as you have shown, there is a way even for a marriage with offspring to be seen as purely utilitarian. If we follow this path, the trick becomes finding a way to discern what is authentic social relating, and what is merely utilitarian service to the growth of civilization. Myself, I would have to rely on my feelings to tell one from the other. Mates are one thing, but children seem to be another. Even if I were to have children hoping for it to be purely utilitarian (like, say, if I needed a supply of workers for my farm or something) I can't imagine it not quickly (perhaps immediately!) turning into an authentic relationship between parent and child. I just can't imagine having a child and not loving the child (having an authentic social relationship with the child.) Choosing a mate, on the other hand, it could go either way and I wouldn't be surprised. Perhaps if the parent left before the birth or soon after, and tried to forget all about the child. I guess this happens all the time, but I haven't heard anything about what the leaving parent feels. If I heard report after report that a parent can have a child and it's only a utilitarian relationship, then I guess I'd have to believe it. (p.s. I read your comment just as you intended it, without offense. Thanks!)</i> Ian said:

What I’m saying was, perhaps your marriage WAS purely utilitarian, your social looking glass may have just warped your perception into thinking it was an authentic relationship.i

It’s a good point, Ian. Perhaps we too quickly call one transaction “utilitarian” and another “social” as if there were a clear dividing line between the two categories. Indeed, as you have shown, there is a way even for a marriage with offspring to be seen as purely utilitarian. If we follow this path, the trick becomes finding a way to discern what is authentic social relating, and what is merely utilitarian service to the growth of civilization. Myself, I would have to rely on my feelings to tell one from the other.

Mates are one thing, but children seem to be another. Even if I were to have children hoping for it to be purely utilitarian (like, say, if I needed a supply of workers for my farm or something) I can’t imagine it not quickly (perhaps immediately!) turning into an authentic relationship between parent and child. I just can’t imagine having a child and not loving the child (having an authentic social relationship with the child.) Choosing a mate, on the other hand, it could go either way and I wouldn’t be surprised. Perhaps if the parent left before the birth or soon after, and tried to forget all about the child. I guess this happens all the time, but I haven’t heard anything about what the leaving parent feels. If I heard report after report that a parent can have a child and it’s only a utilitarian relationship, then I guess I’d have to believe it.

(p.s. I read your comment just as you intended it, without offense. Thanks!)

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